Anyway, doesn't it irk you or bother you when you are having a conversation with someone (probably over whatsapp since sms is not really the trend now), and you guys have been talking for a while, then all of a sudden he/she doesn't reply you?
I mean, okay, if the party you are texting has lost interest in you, at least tell the person?!??!
I don't know why, but they think it's better to leave the person hanging, and let them figure out on their own, to leave them in such misery, instead of telling them straightforward and upfront.
Yes, I know reality can be cruel and it can be painful, but at least I hurt for a little bit and finally am able to move on and get the fuck on with life, instead of holding on to a fragile thread of hope, that one day, maybe just one day, he/she will just reply my messages, and we can resume and go back to our conversation??
I'm not stereotyping, but after much research from Google and of course, live encounters and sources, it seems that the sex that is always doing this is the male, and it seems as if they find joy in putting women through pain, anguish, torture and making them extremely miserable, while they carry on with their little lives, doing the same thing to other women, as they deem fit.
Until they get bored of the girl, all they have to do is ignore and move on to their next target, without knowing that girls are emotional and sentimental creatures that can develop feelings over stupid sweet whatsapp or text messages that boys seem to so easily conjure up and send. Also, we never know if you are doing the same to multiple girls at the same time, that's how delusional and naive and dumb we can be.
I don't know about you girls, but personally, I hate it when this happens to me.
It's like everything is going fine, then all of a sudden *POOF* N-O-T-H-I-N-G
Guys, I don't know about the reason why you all do this, and do it most of the time. But trust me, girls will really appreciate it if you just tell them THE TRUTH, instead of going with the "I'm afraid I will hurt her and I'm generally a nice guy, so I shall just keep mum because silence is golden, and she'll probably figure it out on her own anyways and move on" tactic.
Here, I am, speaking on behalf of myself at this point of time, and well, most girls.
To the broken hearted girls, and my broken-hearted self, stay strong, you'll get past it, you can do better than him, I just know it...
-Xoxo-
"Cause I can't make you love me, if you don't
You can't make your heart feel, something it won't"
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